My DH of 13yrs announced to me 6 weeks ago that he had a ONS whilst on a work trip. You may have seen my last thread "do I forgive a one night stand"?
He was very sorry and quite tearful for the first10 days or so. However, now it's like he don't give a shit and acting like nothing has happened. I asked him we he's is acting like this and not fighting to keep our family together. We have two DS. I said that if I did that to him, not that I would, everyday I would tell him how much I love him and asking for his forgiveness until the day he did.
He then tried to turn it all around making out that I'm having an affair because apparently I'm always on my phone?? Fucking fuming!! He said our marriage wasn't great before and we only "put up with each other". How dare he turn this around onto me, making out that I'm the bad guy whilst he's swanning around as if he's the innocent one!!
We had this argument last night and I was awake all night crying. Why isn't he sorry anymore and acting like a complete asshole. For 6 weeks I've been trying to find a way past this.
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Absolutely F***ing fuming
Ilovepeppa · 23/04/2017 15:05
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.