I think my relationship is coming to an end but I really don't want to admit it. Things have been really rocky with my partner lately and yesterday has really pushed me to the edge of wanting to leave. As the weather was nice we decides to sit in the garden with a few friend's . Our 11 month old was playing around as she does... she fell over and banged her head.... we both rushed over to pick her up but she's such a Mard for me that she didn't want daddy... He's unhappy with this saying that I baby her and I should of let him deal with her. He then goes on to call me some horrible names which I wouldn't like to repeat!! Because people were there I didn't say a word and just went in the house. He come inside apologising and trying to be nice to me. I thought I'd just leave it and discuss it when people have left. Later, our daughter was in bed and I needed to go and pick a friend up from work. I told my partner not to go out... I come back home less than 10 minutes later and he's gone out leaving our terrible sleeper with his friend. She woke up whilst we were out and was screaming because neither of us were there !!!! And finally, he told me to go through his phone mid argument. So I did. There were messages on snap chat to a girl I already had concerns about... hecsaid it's nothing but the messages don't save on snap chat so I'll never know! He agreed to delete her which has been done. Prior to yesterday our relationship has been really up and down recently. He's been having terrible mood swings which he blames on his ADHD. I just feel like this isn't the environment I want my daughter to be bought up in :(
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