Bit of backstory- H moved out last summer as has been battling depression and anxiety for years and it was all getting too much for him and us (me and dc aged 9 and 2)
The idea was he'd take the time to sort himself out then we'd do some work on our relationship with a view to him moving home.
He's done really well and has made major improvements in his mental health. Two weeks ago he asked if he could move back in, I said he could once we'd spent some time together as a couple just to reconnect etc and he then said he didn't want to.
Have spent the last 2 weeks arguing- why did he ask to come back if that wasn't what he wanted etc On Monday he told me he was seeing someone else. From what he's said it started early march, he says it isn't serious but DS 9 told me his dad had asked him on Wednesday if he wanted to meet her!
I am so angry with him for that who does that!?
The thing is I've become slightly obsessed with trying to find out who this person he's seeing is. He's told me her name, where she lives, her age and that she has 2 kids. It's driving me mad not knowing and I don't know why I'm so bothered!
I knew things weren't brilliant but they weren't bad between us, we were working on us and I thought he'd be moving back in a couple of months max so have been completely blindsided by this revelation.
I know it's none of my business who she is but not knowing exactly who,l she is and the fact he's asked DS to meet her is honestly doing my head in.
How do I stop obsessing? Why am I doing it in the first place?
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Stuck16 · 22/04/2017 12:52
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