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Relationships

More than a friend?

15 replies

brickinitIam · 20/04/2017 19:39

What do you make of this.

DH has a friend.
DH bumps into friend and goes for 'walks' with her.
He doesn't mention this. You only find out accidentally.

He then critisises her.

'she's tight'
'She's such an idiot'
'I can't stand her'

Would you be hearing alarm bells? or am I being paranoid?

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Justmadeperfectflapjacks · 20/04/2017 19:43

Big Ben. .

brickinitIam · 20/04/2017 19:44

What?

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TheNaze73 · 20/04/2017 19:45

Massive bells.

He's clearly after more than a "walk"

Justmadeperfectflapjacks · 20/04/2017 19:47

Massive bells. Humongous. . .

ScarletForYa · 20/04/2017 19:47

She means alarm bells ringing like Big Ben.

Red flags there Op.

loveyoutothemoon · 20/04/2017 19:48

He's going on walks with someone he can't stand? What a load of big fat hairy bollocks!

nicp123 · 20/04/2017 19:56

Yes, definitely more than a friend and he is trying to mask he fancies her by saying the opposite.

brickinitIam · 20/04/2017 20:08

Yes. That's what I'm thinking.
He says he bumped into her and then they went for 'walk'.
but then he says

'shes'a 'pain in the arse'

Really?

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happypoobum · 20/04/2017 20:14

Bumped into her where?

Is she a neighbour?

How is this happening so often?

Very suspicious.

brickinitIam · 20/04/2017 20:17

He goes for walks on his own.
We bumped into her and she announces that they went for a walk together.
His face was a picture.

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happypoobum · 20/04/2017 20:23

Has he always gone for walks on his own?

Justmadeperfectflapjacks · 20/04/2017 20:24

For now she strokes his ego. .
Then he will be stroking her fanjo. .

brickinitIam · 20/04/2017 21:00

Stroking her fanjo?
Oh mfg.

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brickinitIam · 20/04/2017 21:01

She looks like an old dog.
Not sure if that's either here nor there

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sproutsmum · 20/04/2017 23:31

I would imagine if he didn't want to walk with her he could find a good reason to excuse himself or walk in a different place maybe?

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