This might be a bit long.
My boss (male) and i get on well and i consider him a work friend. We don't see eachother outside work and only message about work. Usually when one of us is working outside the office, with updates or lettinh eachother know anything important that happening. We only message on a group chat that includes his boss as well as we all work closely.
So we get on at work and chat etc. But dont see eachother outside work. So not a real friend just a work friend.
2 days ago my boss asked me if his wife had added me and facebook. I said 'No why would she?'. He told me she was suspicious of our relationship as we talk alot and he mentions me at home. I replied that i would stop messaging him when he is wfh and he should contact the office if he needs an update as i don't want her to be upset. I felt a bit uncomfortable that she was upset as its never about anything but work and not a lot. Maybe 4/5 messages a week. Boss said he didnt want that. I told him i wasnt comfortable being part of causing problems.
I told dh and dh said he thinks mu boss was testing the waters and might fancy me. I dismissed that as there is nothing between us.
But i have read a comment on another thread that said this often happens. A person mentions their partner isnt happy with the relationship to test the waters to see if anything is there.
Is this true? And what should i do next? I have no intention of having an affair or emotional affair with my Boss.
I am just dreading having to work with him now. But not sure if his comments are anything to worry about.
Thanks for reading and any advice comments would be welcomed.
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KateDaniels2 · 19/04/2017 08:04
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