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New boyf worried

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chocolatebunny85 Tue 18-Apr-17 18:20:06

I've been with my boyf for 3 months

He's great and things are great BUT

I went to see a clairvoyant before I met him and she told me a whole load of stuff including someone called Sam will be very important in my life

We got together just slightly after and at first he laughed it off

Ever since we've been together he worries about me meeting someone called Sam?!

If I say I wanna join the gym he worries I'll meet a Sam
If I say I'm going to look for a new job
He worries someone called Sam works there
If I say I'm going on a night out
You know what I'm going to say? Yep sam Sam Sam

We've had an argument about it at the weekend because I've had enough explaining that I'm very happy
With him, I'm not looking for anyone else as I'm happy with him! He doesn't get it and it's starting well it's already really grating on me
It's insulting me as a women that I would just get Sam into my life !?


MyheartbelongstoG Tue 18-Apr-17 18:28:26

Tell him its just a load of bollox and to grow up.

SandyY2K Tue 18-Apr-17 18:29:06

Does he truly believe in clairvoyants? Sam could be a woman who ends up being a good friend.

Does it really matter. Im sorry but I'm not a believer. If they could see the future, they'd be rolling in money.

Justmadeperfectflapjacks Tue 18-Apr-17 18:30:34

Samantha could be an up and coming bestie. . .

EverythingEverywhere1234 Tue 18-Apr-17 18:34:35

He sounds like a nightmare. Personally I wouldn't let this escalate and I'd end it with him now, but that's because I've been there, done that starting point and ended up in a hideously abusive relationship. It's soul destroying to be so constantly doubted.

AnyFucker Tue 18-Apr-17 18:37:53

Why are you bothering ?

usernumbernine Tue 18-Apr-17 18:39:12

3 months in I would not be arsed. Seriously why would you put yourself through this unless he has a gold plated vibrating cock?

chocolatebunny85 Tue 18-Apr-17 18:41:55

Sam is a man - she implied it was a man

Because at first it was jokey stuff but it's not just Sam I don't think
I think if it wasn't sam he would be insecure anyway

No he doesn't believe but I do so he says he is worried

AnyFucker Tue 18-Apr-17 18:44:17

He sounds like a loser

But so do you for going to a clairvoyant and telling him what she said in the 1st place

Both of you have some growing up to do methinks...apart

user1487947495 Tue 18-Apr-17 18:45:18

If you listen to clairvoyants your BF would be better off without you

EverythingEverywhere1234 Tue 18-Apr-17 18:46:47

Why are you bothering?

corythatwas Tue 18-Apr-17 18:48:59

What AnyFucker said.

Joysmum Tue 18-Apr-17 18:56:21

Well said AnyFucker

AnyFucker Tue 18-Apr-17 18:59:12

Blimey, I was braced for a bashing smile

ScarlettFreestone Tue 18-Apr-17 19:02:21

Sam could be your future dog/child/boss.

But clairvoyancy is nonsense and it sounds like your boyfriend is using this as a way to control your behaviour.

You've been together 3 months. Why on earth is it worth it?

Joysmum Tue 18-Apr-17 19:03:02

grin are you disappointed AnyFucker? grin

AnyFucker Tue 18-Apr-17 19:13:04

Ha! No.Just a bit puzzled. I thought there were loads of people mad for seeing clairvoyants and shitting themselves up.

DrMorbius Tue 18-Apr-17 19:17:15

This is serious Op, but things are always open to interpretation.

Just to be sure, go and see a teabag reader it used to be tea leaves but apparently they have modernized. and then a try zodiac waller. If all three concur, tell your teacher before class starts and ask her to have a word with your bf grinwink

chocolatebunny85 Tue 18-Apr-17 19:39:28

Some serious unhappy bitches on here lol

AnyFucker Tue 18-Apr-17 19:41:23


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AnyFucker Tue 18-Apr-17 19:42:26

I had a dog called Sam but he wasn't a bitch.

chocolatebunny85 Tue 18-Apr-17 19:43:55

Scarlet yeah that's what I was wandering if it was like a control thing

I'm bothering as everything else has been good apart from this hence why I've asked for advice

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Thefutureisbright2017 Tue 18-Apr-17 19:44:30

Seriously OP its a load of shite! Cant believe your asking tbh hmm

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