First time poster so please be gentle!
I started seeing someone earlier this year, we worked together for three years and it took a while to develop as he is quite shy and to be honest probably a bit socially awkward.
Anyway our relationship only really started after I left my old job as I think he thought it was his last chance to do something about it. He was very affectionate and enthusiastic, he made me feel wonderful. He went out of his way to see me and vice versa.
I saw him last Saturday, we spent a few hours together just relaxing and enjoying each other's company. We have slept together a handful of times now.
Since last Saturday he has been a bit off, nothing I can particularly put my finger on, he has just not been his normal self. I last spoke to him on Thursday afternoon and we said we would catch up again on Friday. I haven't heard anything since. I know he has had a busy weekend planned but it's so unusual to hear absolutely nothing.
This wouldn't bother me if it was anyone else but he has always been very attentive and talks to me throughout the day - 'how is your day going?' etc. I sent him a message yesterday asking if everything was ok as I hadn't heard from me. Zero response.
I can handle being ghosted but it seems such a leap to go from talking all the time, seeing each other at every opportunity to then have absolutely nothing and no explanation why. Also ghosting is really not his style as he is very honest and I would think if he wasn't feeling it anymore he would tell me.
Please help me to understand as this is really bugging me!
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Ghosting?
justyourstandardusername · 16/04/2017 17:46
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