I've just moved in with DP with my DD.
DP overheard a conversation I had about how I'd have liked to be engaged before moving in with someone again after past experiences. We moved in together because we wanted to and he asked me, I said yes obviously and were here and never been happier.
He wasn't really evesdropping but I was on Skype to a friend in oz and he had popped up to say hi and heard, it's not an issue.
He however feels he's let me down, turns out he's asked my mum and dad and had it all planned for a significant date in the summer. He's a bit upset I think, he's asked me to go ring shopping with him on Saturday so he gets it right and I'm part of it all....
Would you say this is ok? Or am I letting down the tradition thing?
I'm feeling quite bad now! It was a flippant comment to a friend talking about relationships as hers isn't going great! Wasn't any reflection on DP, was more of a can't believe I've found him and feel so secure thing.
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user1492173460 · 14/04/2017 13:51
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