I love my dh to bits and can't ever imagine myself being with any one else but he has put so much weight on and it's steadily rising every year.
When I me Him he was was carrying a few extra pounds but I didn't care he has an amazing beautiful face and was/fantastic.
He weighs nearly 20 stone now and I don't fancy him any more. His weight makes him snore so bad he sleeps in another room, his weight effects our sex life and his hip joints are bad. He is only 35.
He promises every Saturday - usually after a massive blow out on take away that he will start healthy eating on Monday - now he doesn't even try. He is in denial about his weight, he weighed him self last night and swore it was water and would be half a stone lighter by morning - obviously he wasn't.
He will spend a week going to the gym then eat extra because of the few calories he apparently burnt off.
I think he has a problem with food. He will order two main meals under the guise that it's the same as two starters and we can share but he wolfs it down and even sweats and gets out of breath while eating. He can't drink water so drinks fuzzy pop, at one point he tried with sugar free but know just doesn't give a shit.
Am at a loss now what to do. I can't leave my dh because he made himself obese
But I don't think it's fair he has done this to himself.
I'm going to have a talk with him tomorrow , any ideas?
Thanks
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Jazzywazzydodah · 14/04/2017 00:40
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