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joolspoon · 11/04/2017 22:09

Hi all, NCd as I'm just paranoid and embarrassed about the topic.
My DP and I haven't DTD for nearly 3 years. I can't move out as I can't afford to. But I'm starting to feel like I'm missing out on it.
I've got 2 young DCs.
Anyone experienced this?

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Princesspinkgirl · 11/04/2017 22:10

Interesting topic op.......

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joolspoon · 11/04/2017 22:13

No seriously I've been on here for a few years. I don't know how to prove it...naice ham, cancel the cheque..

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GettingScaredNow · 11/04/2017 22:14

Confused.
Do you want to leave him or have sex with him?

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joolspoon · 11/04/2017 22:16

Sorry not explained very well. I don't want to have sex with him. I'm just stuck In a house we share.

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user1491945327 · 11/04/2017 22:21

Hello, my names Karra. I have a contraceptive implant. A few months ago it moved out of place. I was told that it would still do its job so I didn't think much to it. Ever since I had my implant I bled non stop all the time but ever since it moved I was only having a monthly cycle again. I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend a lot since it's moved.... I've started to get light headed and extremely hungry.... could I be pregnant?

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PetyrBaelish · 11/04/2017 22:21

How does he feel about it? Does he want to stay together? Do you get on?

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joolspoon · 11/04/2017 22:25

We don't get on anymore. I can't leave as I can't afford it. He won't leave. He needs to though as it's easier as I'll have the kids with me. Feel so crap about it all. What a sad existence

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coffeecuppa · 11/04/2017 22:29

If you're unhappy, you can leave. Money is no reason not to leave - find out what you can claim if you do leave him. You'll have the children, presumably? Use entitledto.co.uk or turn2us.org.uk to work out what you can claim.

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Aridane · 11/04/2017 22:31

User - I think you need to start your own thread

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joolspoon · 11/04/2017 22:35

I've found out i can only claim until October. As in my area Universal Credit comes in in October. As I own half the house and have capital in it then I can't claim benefits under the UC.
Also rent is so high here.