I've posted about future MIL before yet here I go again...
Dp are getting married at the end of June. Small wedding of 18 guests with a bigger party on the night.
Dp's does not have a good relationship with his DM. She threw him and his younger DB out of the house when they were teenagers. I feel she is emotionally abusive towards DP and quite frankly he's scared of her.
She sent him a text on Mother's Day informing him that he was selfish, only wanted her when he wanted something and that she was sick of getting treated like shit! This charming message ended with her telling him he was on his own from now on. She also sent same message to his younger DB. I should add that DP had posted her Mother's Day card along with her wedding invite the Thursday before. Dp tried calling her, but she wouldn't pick up the phone!
We heard from his DB that she was then on phone to him the week after saying she wasn't sure if she should come to the wedding! Then apparently calming down and saying she would. It was Dp's birthday yesterday and she sent a card but that was it. No phone call or text message.
Then last night DP received a message from his DF saying that his wife isn't going to come to day part of wedding in case she "chins Dp's DM" Future PIL have been divorced for years and are both remarried.
I'm totally fed up of all their Jeremy Kyle style bullshit. DP just keeps saying he will talk to his DM at some point, but if she misbehaves on the day she can just leave...as if that's a solution!
I feel like sending them all a round email telling them that it might be better that all those who feel they can't behave acceptably on the day should stay away.
Dp says DF wife is just thinking of us by offering to stay away. Frankly I think they are all just thinking of themselves and their petty squabbles.
So stressed about it all. What do I do Mumsnet?
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Dp's family and upcoming wedding. Advise me please Mumsnet!
Isthismummy · 11/04/2017 07:35
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