I feel so sad about the state of my marriage and I have no clue what to do about it.
I feel as though nothing is ever resolved. Today is our 27th wedding anniversary and my DH forgot. He doesn't see why I'm upset and just keeps talking "at" me and pretending life is OK - this is one of the things that I find so hard to cope with. He will never talk things through, says it's better to move on and not dwell - but FFS it drives me mad and I'm not sure how much longer I can live like it. I don't just mean forgetting an anniversary, he is like this about every issue from going to a lapdance club when out entertaining customers with his boss, (he said not his fault, he just went with the flow, would have looked stupid if he'd said no), through to never standing up for me with his family (he says he's just trying to be fair to everyone and least said soonest mended).
I'm left feeling unreasonable and frustrated and very angry. There are a lot more examples but I don't want to bore you all with a litany of complaints. Just wanted to let off steam really, and I wondered if anyone else has a similar problem and if so how do you deal with it?
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JanStruther · 07/04/2017 22:32
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