So was using my husbands phone. Found an email address I didn't recognise. Turns out he posted an ad with a photo of his appendage saying he was married so was looking for discreet NSA fun. Morning or daytime preferred (when I work). 'Apparently' he was just looking for attention. But who f&*^ing knows how far he would've gone before I he got caught. I dont know how to feel, he didn't cheat but would he have done?
He's deleted the ad and his email that he used. I managed to undelete his email account but all emails had been deleted. I caught him Friday morning and since then nothing suspicious into his email address. I don't know how else to check on him - I've googled his username, scrolled through match.com to see if he's on there. nothing.