Hi there,
I posted a little while ago and got a lot of support - thread about P hurting me and taking my door keys.
We are now separated and he is not to come into contact with us but I am still so lost.
Our baby is not yet 4 months and I am so tired, it is Easter holidays so my son is off nursery.
He is very upset and unsettled and is constantly asking when Daddy is going to come back from work.
He told my mum on the phone that he misses daddy and mummy has made him leave (I haven't said this to him, it's what I believe he has gathered from the situation)
He also told his little friend on the street that his mummy hates daddy.
ExP (guess I should get used to saying that) has been bailed and a friend of his came to collect his work clothes from here the other day, it made me very sad as I still can't believe we have got to this point.
I can't help thinking about what the future is going to bring. I am so terrified that my 4 year old especially is going to be greatly affected by the events that have happened.
I know it's usual for me to feel depressed during all of this, but I feel like I can't breathe a lot of the time and I'm constantly tired. I only managed to get out of bed a couple of hours ago and it means the TV has been my son's soul entertainment for the last few days and I feel so guilty but am just finding Day to Day tasks so bloody difficult.
Any advice? I don't have any friends or family nearby but am going to stay with family in a couple weeks - can't right now as DM is recovering from a very big op :(
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Soconfusedandsohurt · 06/04/2017 12:53
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