It's a long back story but the gist of it is that SS advised me to stop contact between DCs and EXp before Xmas after my youngest disclosed some things. EXp has been attending the social worker roughly weekly since January to deal with the concerns that were raised. SW says it's now time to reinstate contact (supervised by her) but that she wants me and EXp to sit down together with her before that happens. My youngest has lots of issues so I am assuming the purpose of the meeting is to discuss what has been happening with him and what needs to happen going forward and how I'm dealing with things at home so Ex is on the same page.
That is all fine and to be expected but I am dreading it. EXP and I do not get on. We don't have any contact because when we do it always ends up in a row. He is an habitual liar and has a habit of saying everything you want to hear but following through with none of it. I don't trust him as far as I could throw him and I am anticipating being in that room, knowing he is lying about something but being unable to say so for fear it looks like I'm starting a row or being obstructive to the contact resuming. For the DC I want contact to resume. They want to see him again. But I am worried he is just going along with everything the social worker is saying and then will go back to his natural behaviours once her eyes are off him. That's not a problem for tomorrow though. Cross that bridge when we get to it. It's the meeting I am worrying about for now.
Does anyone have any advice on what to expect from this meeting? I know that's a tough question as every situation is different.
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I have to sit in a room with my exP tomorrow
ZilphasHatpin · 05/04/2017 18:35
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