Since DH died, it's been a massive load of wank, regarding financial stuff, wanky Sil telling me she's pleased that "I have a silver lining". (DH and I both brought the same amount of money into our marriage.)
Then dealing with financial advisors and solicitors today ,(by 'phone, thank goodness). I have the shakes, and haven't eaten for a week. I need to go out though and collect my ADs.
Am having a cigarette and planning on eating something. Like soup. Then a bath. Please tell me I'm not going mad?
Can't wanky SIL actually do something helpful and make some of these difficult calls for you??? When my DH died my ( non-wanky) DS really helped by making some calls for me and sending copies of death certificate out. It really helped. Leaves you free for bath and soup.
I add cream into everything pickle . And soup will be accompanied by toast with extra strong spready cheese on it. SiL not very nice. Stringy and mental. Definitely wouldn't eat her she would poison me with her bile
I just had a bit of a wobble for a bit. Thanks for bearing with me.
Thank you moira. Hopefully I won't need any more dealings with Sil now. I understand she's lost her brother, but she consistently made his life a misery. They worked together, but she'd constantly intrude on his time spent away from work with 'phone calls demanding he come into work RIGHT NOW, on DH's days off, unwanted random visits to us etc.
She even kept a journal on his coffee drinking and cigarette habit. In spite of her husband always having a bag of cannabis stuffed down his sock, and shoving class A's up his nose, with a six-pack of Stella.