Been married to my hubby for 13yrs and have two young boys. He works away often but always trusted him completely.
When he got home from his last trip couple of weeks ago, he told me he got drunk one night and had sex with a woman he picked up on a night out. He was very sorry and begging for forgiveness. I believe he only told me because he thought he had an std in his mouth (herpes)!
I feel so devastated by this and really struggling to see past this and I feel he has ripped my heart out. I have lost all trust in him, especially as he works away at time, and have lost all respect for him. I honestly don't know if I love him anymore now.
Am I right to feel like this after one betrayal, or should I forgive as he's sorry and it was only a one off?
Would you forgive or end things?
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Should I forgive a one night stand?
Ilovepeppa · 05/04/2017 13:35
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