Has anyone tried living apart from DH/DP to save a relationship? What happened? Would you try it or just give up and move on?
I've been with my DH for over 20 years. He recently said he's not happy and thinks our marriage might be over. There's no OW but I think he's in the middle of a MLC because of the things he's worrying about.
He was going to leave but we started talking and now he's not sure what he wants. He has suggested moving out but that we stay together and try and inject back in some excitement by dating again, like at the beginning, to see if we do still really love each other etc.
I'm not sure about doing this but I would like to save the marriage if it can be saved. Although, if it is over I'd rather just get on with it so we can both just move on (I know it's not really that simple but you see what I mean!).
DC all grown up and moved away. I can be financially independent. So, this is all about the marriage and whether to try this as a last resort.
Have you done this? Would you try it? I'd love to hear some other thoughts. Thank you!
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Living apart but staying together. Would you?
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TooComplicated · 03/04/2017 15:03
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