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6 women 4 weeks

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lilyroses · 02/04/2017 19:26

So today after a lot of begging I got the proof and confession he has been with 6 women in the last 4 weeks - one of who is my cousin and one of who he had bareback sex with and then slept with me the next day also bareback,I only got him to admit because his friend told me and also last week I noticed a abnormal discharge.

I'm not even angry I'm just numb and broken.

Not sure why I'm posting or what I expect from this,I just need to get it out without humiliating myself to family and friends.

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lilyroses · 02/04/2017 19:27

Sorry about lack of punctuation I rushed writing that.

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AnyFucker · 02/04/2017 19:27

So, what is going to be the outcome of this appalling behaviour ?

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AnyFucker · 02/04/2017 19:28

And why would you feel humiliated ?

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ShatnersWig · 02/04/2017 19:29

6 women in 4 weeks? How has he found the time?

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Patriciathestripper1 · 02/04/2017 19:30

Have you been to a clinic to get yourself checked? Go asap and hope it's something you can cure.
If you live with him get out or get him out.

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Underthemoonlight · 02/04/2017 19:31

I would Ltb and get an sti check I'm sorry this happened to you

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lilyroses · 02/04/2017 19:32

The cunt can go and do as he pleases as his not welcome in my life.im sure the sadness will kick in once the wine wears off.

I think I would feel humiliated to talk to family and friends because thy both played a part in this.

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Holland00 · 02/04/2017 19:33

That's really shitty OP. Where does this leave You?

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lilyroses · 02/04/2017 19:35

I had a sti check as soon as I noticed the discharge just waiting on results.which was before he confessed.

And how did he find the time? Well he would do it after work,after a night out and in between leaving me and collecting out take away.

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PaterPower · 02/04/2017 20:03

Jesus, he's classy. And what a treat for whichever OW he shagged in the (20 mins?) it took him to pick up a takeaway!

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lilyroses · 02/04/2017 20:33

Must have been great since she's asking for more

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TheNaze73 · 02/04/2017 20:34

What's the back ground? You been together long?
His behaviour is appalling, yes people do throw themselves at each other but, he didn't need to take th up on it. The not wearing a condom bit, is abhorrent

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lilyroses · 02/04/2017 21:20

Yes been with him a long time,known each other for 15 years.but the last few months have been a bit rocky.
His always been a big softie and spoilt me with love (and clearly the last month a lot of other women)

The condom has hit me the hardest because I've got cervical cancer and a sti can cause a lot of problems.
and going on dates with my cousin has broke me.

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SandyY2K · 02/04/2017 21:25

Not such a great cousin really is she. Men come and go... But you'd expect blood to count for more than that.

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lilyroses · 02/04/2017 22:02

Yes it's her that I'm more angry at,I know it takes two to tango but she's blood.
But she was clearly liking going behind my back because she kept bringing me up in messages.

Everyone involved is a cunt yes I'm hurt but I can't be bothered.
time to cut people loose and be happy I haven't got scum in my life anymore