When I started crying earlier because he'd been so nasty to me (emotional abuse / blackmail/ name calling) DP just sneered at me and said 'that's what your mother does, just sits there and cries'.
My mother is 84 years old and has severe / advanced dementia.
I feel I've reached rock bottom and simply can't live with him any more. In the meantime, what on earth is the right way to respond to this type of remark?
I have v low self esteem and just don't know what to say to him without screaming obscenities, and would prefer not to do that with dc around. :(
Can anyone suggest some retorts to put him in his place and convey my loathing for him?
I am hoping to gather enough resources mentally and physically to make him leave or leave myself. I just cant bear to be near him any more and asked him to go into spare room tonight ( he refused for ages- he minimises my feelings and acts like my wishes just don't count) where he will hopefully stay until he's gone god good.
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MuckedUpAgain · 30/03/2017 22:46
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