Hi. My hubby drinks over 100 units a week, every night he pops in pub on way home, often lying that he is out in london with clients etc and actually is just down the road drinking. He only has 2-4 pints then come home and has half to a bottle of red wine and at weekends always goes to pub for 2-3 hours in afternoon, often all these times he is alone. Point is added up it's over 100 units a week, and he always misses our 6yo bedtime unless I'm going to gym in which case he gets back just as I need to go out but smelling of beer. I've told him he's being unreasonable, he could easily come back in time to see son every night he says it's because he works and brings in main money, and I don't contribute, tonight he even made out that he only went down pub because I texted him asking where he was (!). I don't earn as much as him I work part time but I do all childcare cooking etc and make his life completely easy, I said to him if I worked ft he'd have to pick ds up sometimes from after school club and what would he do he couldn't take him to pub so he sulked off. Really fed up with this my parents divorced because my dad was the same and it worries me. He doesn't want to talk about it and just turns it on me, what do I do?
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