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2nd chances with OLD

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choccyfiend78 · 28/03/2017 20:03

Ok, so the back story of this is that I had been signed up on tinder (not great but I am overseas so it is about the only option!) and was "super-liked" by a guy. We matched and chatted for a while and agreed to meet up. The day before the date I messaged him to check we were still on (had swapped phone numbers so text him) and never got a reply. Went on tinder a couple of days after to find that he had disappeared from my matches.

Fast forward about a month and I decided to reset my account (new matches were thin on the ground so decided to start again) and lo and behold, who pops up with a "super-like" again?!

Now I don't know what to do about this, my best friend has said to ignore but there is a part of me thinking I should give him the benefit of the doubt and see what happens.

So here is the question - straw poll time as to whether I should match or not??Confused

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goodpiemissedthechips · 28/03/2017 20:05

I'd ignore him, honestly. You can do better.

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Angleshades · 28/03/2017 20:35

I'd ignore him too.

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shineon · 28/03/2017 20:40

Ignore

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Minime85 · 28/03/2017 20:56

Nope don't

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Kittencatkins123 · 28/03/2017 20:59

NEXT!

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choccyfiend78 · 28/03/2017 21:01

Thanks all for confirming what I thought, I am just sometimes one of those people who wants to see the good in others (even when it is maybe not there!)

I have duly swiped left and moved on Grin

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highinthesky · 28/03/2017 21:05

Quit Tinder and get a new hobby.

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Kittencatkins123 · 28/03/2017 21:56
Wine
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