I have been NC with a family member for just under a year. I won't bore you all too tears with the story, but going NC was the best thing for me.
Today is my birthday - and one of my family members has forwarded a birthday message on their behalf too me.
For the first time in nearly a year I am feeling guilt when they have reached out. I'm torn between guilt and attempting making contact and then get angry with myself for feeling guilt when I remember everything that was said/done.
Can you go NC for nearly a year and get back in contact ( and the perpsn realise their faults? )
Is this a normal feeling?
Has anybody got any advice on how to deal with the emotions.
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NC with family member -they've reached out.
StormzyStuck · 28/03/2017 14:23
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