Have posted before about discovery 3 months ago of very longing poems/song lyrics and recorded songs written 11 years ago for someone else, I am told it was one sided and she knew nothing and FB messages as PMs I have seen in last few years show no indication of anything odd from her side , all just friends stuff , she has since married and baby due any day and until I confronted 3 months ago he used to comment on a lot of her posts but of course I wasn't aware how he felt all those years ago , I was incredibly upset, got the sorry it was stupid and all just in my head stuff (if only it had stayed there) what I am finding hard is the entitlement he seems to have that I will just go ahead with plans we had to move to Europe (logical business reasons for this) mini breaks, physical relationship etc, I can't say it's 100% rugsweeping as it was discussed how I felt etc but certainly seems to be a business as usual feeling from his side, to the point I feel I either have to go along with everything in good grace and move forward or say 'sod off' there doesn't seem to be room for a taking things steadily angle, AIBU to expect to take things a bit slower or is it unfair of me to not feel 100% but stay and see how I feel with a bit of time . He is aware I was pretty devastated but for a very bright and quite introspective guy seems to have quite a thick skin , has surprised me a lot I must admit
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'Entitlement ' post discovery of EA/limerence
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Esoteric · 26/03/2017 17:56
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