Please help me snap out of feeling shit. I've been pretty to a classic player seeking ONS but it's left me reeling a bit. Please tell me he sounds like a jerk!!
(Met on dating app)
Tons of messaging from the get go for 4 days til we actually met up. V over the top flattery- "you're soooo gorgeous" (in my pics), "we'll get on really well", "you're such a catch" etc
Wanted to meet for a drink at 10pm after he finished work
On date, commented that in a couple sitting near us "the girl was really punching above her weight. She's a 3 and he's a 9"...
before proceeding to rate himself a 9.5 and smugly day "when people have been telling you you're good looking all your life you start to believe them"
Said his past tinder dates had failed as either the women were "amazing" at sex but "dim", or "boring" at sex but "interesting"
Future faking - "we'll do this", "we'll go there" within about an hour of meeting
Flattering me on the date "you could make a bin bag look good" "you're so much hotter than your photos"
Complaining that women shouldn't expect men to pay on a first date m
He Suggested he come home with me, I stupidly agreed, he suggested we get an uber and then expected me to order and pay for it
After sex immediately gave a sort of critique- "you don't like having your hair pulled do you" me:"no" him (quite annoyed) "well why didn't you just say don't pull my hair??" Then "you didn't want me to go down on you did you?" Me: "what?" Him:"you stopped me" (I find it more intimate than PIV and to be honest just didn't want oral in the encounter, but him bringing it up made me feel really embArrassed and weird, I have since been asking myself if I had let him go down on me would I have passed the "amazing"/"boring" sex test?!? I don't think he should have mentioned it if he thought I didn't want it there was no reason to bring it up later
He didn't contact me again.... after 4 straight days of literally blowing up my phone pre-sex. I texted him something light and he just ignored on what's app.
Jerk- right??
Feel so taken in! any uplifting words would be great...
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Please reassure me!!
Princessmollygolly · 25/03/2017 22:27
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