I was reading a thread on another forum and these traits came up in a description of a partner:
-He is financially irresponsible and expects you to bail him out
-He is dismissive of your concerns and options and is not prepared to even discuss these, let alone change his own behaviour for you or for the relationship
-He is unwilling to socialise with your friends and makes you feel smothered
-He manipulated you by sulking, holding grudges and taking offence, to the extent that you are changing your actions to try and avoid this reaction
-He knows you were in an abusive relationship but is not supportive of your wish to learn to be more assertive
-You feel desperate and smothered
Is this an abusive relationship? Or does the boyfriend show some sort of sociopathic/narcisstic tendencies? I'm just trying to caterogise it as an ex of mine - I could've written these traits word for word.
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Do these characteristics have a name?
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BlueNeighbourhood1 · 22/03/2017 12:59
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