Hey folks, i am new to mumsnet and new to pregnancy too. I am looking for a bit of guidance. I am 10 weeks pregnant and I found out a few days ago that my husband has been chatting to another women via whats app (sending pictures etc) - I saw this with my own eyes on his phone - call it women's intuition that I knew something wasn't quite right with his behavior. I confronted him about it and tried to tell me that it was a male friend - I saw the pictures and the message - this is not a male friend. I asked him to leave last night which he has done. I am now so scared of whats to come in the next 7 months... alone... first pregnancy, heart ache etc. He has problems with alcohol (as in he doesn't know when to stop drinks frequently) which makes him selfish and dismissive. He was over the moon when I told him we were pregnant - it wasn't planned but it was on the cards for this year - he was going to get help with alcohol first as that is where most of the problems came from. I am now so confused and scared... have I done the right thing, how am i going to cope, i dont think that I can ever trust him again, should I continue with the pregnancy.. so many thoughts are going through my head. Any help would be appreciated x
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