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Am I mad for considering this ..

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userneedsadvice · 21/03/2017 08:31

My DH and I have an active sex life. During sex we like to fantasise and talk dirty. His current fave topic is mmf 3way. He loves the idea of other men looking at me and getting turned on. I joked in the heat of the moment that I would do it but it would cost him .. and I suggested that he could buy me a very expensive item in exchange. I thought this would put him off .. but it turned him on even more and he really wants to do it. Not such in fantasy land .... Have I lost my mind to consider this ... or should I just save like a normal person Hmm

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0dfod · 21/03/2017 08:36

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Rinkydinkypink · 21/03/2017 08:38

Don't do it! You can't unsee things. A fantasy that becomes reality is rarely as imagined. It will most probably result in you breaking up.

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Wishiwasmoiradingle2017 · 21/03/2017 08:39

Only if you know a good divorce solicitor.

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SewMeARiver · 21/03/2017 08:40

I think you might enjoy at the time but poss feel a bit exploited afterwards. Don't take the risk

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PurplePen · 21/03/2017 08:48

Have a proper discussion about it when you're not in the heat of the moment.

The man involved is probably going to want to do more than just look at you.

I'm guessing the idea won't be such a thrill for him if you talk about it while he's emptying the dishwasher rather than when he's just about to blow his load.

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TheNaze73 · 21/03/2017 09:12

If you want to do it, go for it. If you have 1% of doubt, don't.

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PutThatPomBearBack · 21/03/2017 09:21

Hmm I dunno , I would feel like my husband was pimping me out for his own pleasure.

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