I'm really struggling to move on with DH.
We've been together 5 years, always extremely loving & best friends. We do everything together and have a very close bond and it's just been wonderful.
3 years ago I found out he had a big debt that he swore to me he had paid off - it caused us to nearly split up as he had lied to me.
I've always said honesty & trust is very important in a relationship.
We have got over that and I started to trust him again but recently I now find out he's been watching porn in secret and hiding it from me.
He says it's a one off and he has no interest in it and hates himself for looking at it and swears he will never do it again.
Trouble is I feel like it's just one lie after another. He used to tell me he hated porn and found it disgusting - says he's never watched it even when he was single.
How do I learn to trust him again?
I know these things would not bother a lot of women so it's not the topics I need help on - more how to move on with our marriage - can you learn to trust again?
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How do you trust again after lies?
Abbielove · 21/03/2017 07:16
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