Iam at my wits end!
I have always had issues regarding my DPs family, especially his grandmother and brother i have always tryed to be polite to them even though they make it perfectly clear they dont like me. My BIL has issues with mental health which he has never sought help for and as a result is prone to anger outbursts. Over the last year my dp and i have purchased our first home together and i thought my troubles with them was over. However, since we have moved into our home we have had nothing but grief. My BIL has began phoning at all hours of the night being abusive and in my opinion threatening. When my dp refuses to go and see him due to having to sleep for work he becomes more aggresive calling him selfish and a traitor for not doing what he asks. On approaching the subject with as much care as possible my DPs grandmother she not only brushes it off but justifies this behaviour as stress. I already suffer from anxiety and as you can imagine this has made things worse. My DP seems to take his family's side and doesn't feel the need to defend me. As a result of this constant stress and worry that he could take his anger too far and turn violent i have put our baby plans on hold until this is resolved which i fear it may never be. I feel my BIL could not be trusted around any child we may have due to his temper and feel my wish to become a parent may never become a reality.
Any advice anyone may have is welcomed.
Thank you dearly in advance x
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Morningstar26 · 20/03/2017 22:00
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