I'm a regular poster but have name changed. Been married for 4 years. 2 kids. I don't want to be married to him anymore. He said if I filed for divorce, he would contest it and cause so many problems that I would give up on divorcing him. He's well off and obsessed with me not getting anything financially. He said he'd ignore all solicitor's letters. The house is in his name, he pays all the bills and mortgage. 2/3 of childcare. He said he has no intention of continuing to do this if we split, so I would be financially destitute. I can't afford a solicitor at the moment, in saving up for an initial appointment but in the meantime, I'm going mad. Can anyone offer any advice?
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