I have been having problems with my husband and he has just found out that his mum has cancer. The last couple of weeks we haven't talked or been close to each other and then last night he started talking to me and then he starts touching me I knew he wanted sex and I said no not tonight it was late and I was tired but he carrys on and pins my arms after awhile I kinda froze and then just let him do it so it was over and done with ( I was sexually abused as a child and my way adventully to get through it was just to lie there and wait till it was over because then it wouldn't hurt as much) after my husband was finished I just went to be but I'm just shocked today I don't think he knows he's done anything wrong because he's acting like nothing has happened. I'm just confused
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