Dear friend of mine has met the love of her life, her partner is amazing and after 20 years of friendship I've never seen my friend so happy and grounded and present in her life.
They live together, kids are off the cards but they have a wonderful life.
Friends partner (S) has made it clear from day one that my friend will never met her parents and her parents will never know about my friend (it's a same sex / inter-racial relationship) and S's parents are very unaccepting on both counts.
On paper the arrangement is OK.
S has a very small family (just parents and a few aunts) in quite a remote part of Europe. They have never been to UK despite S being here 15y + and due to age they never will come over.
S visits a few times a year and at Christmas if she isn't working.
S's family aren't on any social media.
So apart from S having a few days away every other month (and at least a week in the summer) her family have no impact or baring on her relationship with my friend.
It just doesn't sit well with me? Could you or would you be able to agree to this?
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Could you live with this arrangement?
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Crunchymum · 18/03/2017 19:08
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