I have met him a few times now and have another arranged.
I just dont know if he is after the same as me.
I remember his dating profile said "looking for fun" where as mine said "looking for relationship".
I have told him if it is just sex he is after then he is barking up the wrong tree.
He made it clear that that is not his intention.
As well as it all seems to be going, i still keep getting that niggle that he isnt after the same as me. Its starting to knock me a bit and i feel myself trying to distance but i really dont want to. I just like him enough to not want to drag it out any further if we arent after the same thing.
My problem is... it is far too soon to spring questions like that on him, isnt it?
Im all about honesty, yet im struggling here.
I dont want to make us official, i dont want any kind of commitment with him just yet - i know its early days. I just want to know we are both moving in the same direction at least! How can i get that across?
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How to ask if we are on the same wavelength
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Nipplesunited · 18/03/2017 18:37
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