Divorced but was due to remarry this year. Madly in love with fiance, bought a house together in London and were planning our future together. Kids are staying with their dad this week (thank God!), I come home from Zurich after a shitty business trip and his stuff is gone. Every single thing he possessed. Tried to call him but goes straight to answerphone, tried to whatsapp him but my messages aren't being delivered. Frantically tried to contact him on all social media outlets but he's unfriended me?
The relationship was fantastic, we are financially secure, great sex life and lots of laughs, we'd only recentl returned from a winter vacation in Bali and had the best time. Only thing the fucker didn't take me off is snap chat and There was a snap on his story and in the background it looked like a woman's shoes.
No idea where he is, my kids are going to be devastated. He works away a lot so I don't even know where he is right now.
Lost and not sure what to do next
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He's just disappeared. What the fuck?
Deeperthanathousandcuts · 15/03/2017 11:04
God, that's awful, so sorry 
I hope you find out what's happened, there must be a friend or family member you could contact, just so you know?
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Jesus Christ, you poor thing.
What a horribly shitty cowardly fucked up thing to do.
As a PP said, cry, be supported by friends and family, secure your money/accounts, do what you need to do to be kind to yourself and children, and in time move on, seeing this as your lucky escape.
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Happened to a friend of mine many years ago. She finally tracked him down at work and he said he didn't want to know anymore. Turned out he'd met another woman and just decided that was it, the coward.
It got better later as, years on, he asked for another chance and she told him where to go 
and is now happily married to someone else. But this is the worst bit. Speak to your solicitors and get advice on what to do about the house. And don't be afraid to tell people what he's done - you will need support and they'll rightly regard him as a shit.
what a coward!
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How awful OP, what a shock 
What a SHITTY thing to do. 
Have you checked all your finances and made sure he hasn't taken any money from you? Make sure everything is secure and not accessible by him. It's bonkers of him to go uncontactable when you own a house together - that has to be sorted out.
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