Am coming out of 4years relationship, I love my Ex so much but he get mad over everything so the feelings I had for him dead but he's still telling me he wants me back but I don't want this relationship anymore. And there's this guy who propose to me I fall in with him on the first week of our date I don't understand why because my ex try to win my heart more than a year and I just fall in love with this new guy like a fool. I found out from the media that he has a girlfriend but she left for aboard. I can't tell if he really love's me as he say and one thing he talks to her but not in front of me my friends thinks he loves me. Because of the way he stares at me, lick his lips, always wanna see me to kiss me and torch me. Am afraid of sex ever since I broke my vc have never had sex again because am afraid and am afraid he meant ask sex. Am so confused my ex given me hard times and this guy too. Please help me found out if he loves me as he say
He proposed to you and you want us to help you find out if he loves you? He has a girlfriend, who is not you, and you are wondering? Well, forget about your ex and forget the cheater and find a decent man that makes your heart beat faster.
Ladies, I would say English is not the OP's first language, but there is no need to mock people Montane, specially when English native speakers usually can't be bothered to learn another language. Have some respect for someone who made the effort.
OP, he sounds like a sleaze. Since you have just come out of an awful relationship, I think it would be better to take some time on your own. When you do meet someone else, take it at a pace that is right for you...
Montane50 - did you think everyone would join you to laugh at the OP? Sorry to disappoint
This new guy sounds terrible and doesn't come across as genuine at all. You don't need to find out whether he really loves you.
All you need to do is to put a very large distance between you and him and focus on yourself and what you want. You will know yourself when you have found someone genuine, respectful and caring. You may want find some better friends too....
Licking his lips in front of other people about you? God god, he sounds like an animal..and not a very nice one either. You're not someone's lunch, love.