OH God! It seemed like a good idea after a lonely glass of wine last night. Now I'm regretting this.
My OH had a sex texting thing from some woman on the internet 4 years ago. I found out we worked through it. But I am not ashamed to say I have made him work for forgiveness and I'm not entirely sure I trust him now.
He recently changed his phone to a new network etc and gave me his old one. I just kept it as was and kept his number.
Got a text yesterday at Lunchtime.
"Hey sexty! Haven't heard from you an a looooooooong while. What you at 2day?"
I have had this phone since Christmas and this is the first message I have got. At the time I found out about her I found out she has. Boyfriend where he works and who her family are (open Facebook profile)
So last night in reply I sent a message saying Who I was and that I'd forwarded her message screen shot to her Boyfriend and her family..........I didn't, but I wanted to make her shake the way I did when inreceived her message.
Now I feel shit. I always felt I maintained a high ground when I wasn't even acknowledging her and in truth I'd forgotten about her. Do I need to tell OH what I did? I do don't I? 😒
Feel a bit crap today for doing that.
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OH GOD! Contacted OW!
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