So I've been off the dating scene for aggggges
Met someone couple of months ago and we are now an item
But I have a couple of concerns and would like your advice
He has been noting but lovely
The relationship is going very well and he seems very happy as I am
This weekend I'm going on a girls night out
It's been planned before we even became an item and I don't go out very often just whenever us mummies can arrange baby sitters etc
Anyway.....he has said he's worried about me going out.....asked why and this weekend he seemed to lay it on thick
He has said he's worried in case I get chatted up - I've said I'm not interested in anyone else as I'm happy with him! And although it's early days I've tried to reassure but he still says he's worried....he said because he has been cheated on in the past but I've said I wouldn't do anything to hurt him
He said he trusts me as I've done nothing to abuse that but he can't help it
What worries me too is that he has asked what I'm wearing and how I am when I'm out and had a drink ? Do I flirt?
And then yesterday I told him I'm considering joining the gym and he then said he was really worried I was going to meet someone in there ?!
At this point I've started to think is this right?
He then said he wasn't going to say anything so I could just have a good night as he didn't wanna make me feel bad but then he thought be better tell me ? So then I'm thinking why did he tell me then did he want me to feel bad?
I asked my bf and she said it's normal as if her boyf of 3 yrs said he's having a boys night out even she would be slightly worried ?
Just need some advice please as I'm feeling a bit concerned
Xx
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Is this normal ?
annabananna82 · 13/03/2017 23:57
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