My husband and I have been married less than a year, been together around 10 years, have 4 children.
A few years ago I had a text from an unknown number. It was someone telling me my husband was messaging her inappropriately, flirty and suggestive. I confronted him, he was 'terribly sorry' said it was a blip it would never happen again etc etc. About a year after that I found some messages on his phone. He was talking to another woman. Telling her that I was awful and he would leave me for her in a heartbeat and lots of suggestive messages. i have no idea how he knew either woman. Again on confrontation he was very sorry.
Fast forward to today and I get a facebook message from a woman saying she's really sorry but my husband is messaging her. He starts off by saying 'do I know you from.......' and then goes on to flirty messages like how cute they look in their profile picture and can they be friends, nothing too serious but messages a married man should not be sending. She then goes on to say he sent her the same messages a few months back and it looks like he's just forgotten he's already tried it on with her. She has told him to leave her alone and to send her no more messages. The messages are from last night.
She then messages again to send screenshots from one of her friends and she has the same kind of messages from him too. Neither woman know him. He seems to have randomly picked them on Facebook.
What the actual fuck do I do? He's obviously sending these kind of messages to lots of women isn't he?
I don't know how to handle this situation at all.
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OonaLoona2 · 12/03/2017 21:01
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