This is about someone I know, someone I am very close to. A bit of background- this person has been married 40 years. Husband is often emotionally and verbally abusive (I have witnessed this and experienced same myself in life so I know this for a fact) and occasionally physically violent. I agree this is horrendous and so does this person, yet she has told me she is to scared to leave and often says she wouldn't find anyone else, or she will defend him saying it wasn't that bad. I found out that her husband often makes her feel bad that she isn't fulfilling his "needs" often enough. She i spost menopusal and yet husband wants her to make love to him everytime he wants it. If she is feeling unwell or is half asleep and refuses he will put her down, belittle her and goa dher until she gives in or will berate her and accuse her of not lovng him. He hasn't raped her but surely this isn't normal behaviour??? their children have grown up and moved home but they have been affected by woitnessing the abuse and their father used to abuse them too verbally, mentally and physically. I don't know what to think about regarding the sex thing. my gut is telling me it isn't normal???
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What would you think of this? Is this a reasonable reaction to spouse refusing sex???
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ImBackOnHereAgain · 12/03/2017 08:19
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