I know I am being pathetic but I'm really hurt! I wouldn't have taken him back if he did!
STBXH had an affair, as soon as I found out I threw him out. Have never done the pick me dance. A few days after we broke up he came on to me and I rejected him. Over the months since he has sent me the odd text to say he misses me and still loves me. I haven't replied to any of them.
A couple of weeks ago I heard that he and OW had split up. I think she dumped him. It coincided with a period that we were in contact again over the house sale/clearance after a long period of NC.
Last weekend I had to go to the house to clear some stuff out and he was in. He was really down, had received notification from the court that morning in the post of the date of our Decree Nisi hearing. We ended up talking about why we felt we hadn't worked out, then he asked me to leave because he was so upset. Then I found out he got back together with OW later that day!
I'm so hurt that he seemed to be so upset about our imminent divorce but spent his energy on wooing her. Be gentle with me, I'm feeling fragile, but I feel so rejected again. I'm posting this because I need to busy my hands and mind because I am itching to text him telling him I miss him.
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Hurt that STBXH won back the OW but didn't try to win me back
OhBlissOhJoy · 10/03/2017 00:46
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