I am just about to turn 30 and when I was 16 I had a relationship with my teacher.
Reading my diary it's quite clear he groomed me whilst I was his pupil. He then pursued a relationship with me when I had left the school. Technically he did nothing wrong.
I have recently discovered an online profile that is his. I have found myself torturing myself over the years trying to find out if he's still teaching, if he's done it again, if he's been in trouble at all. Then I discovered his profile.
I want to tell him how wrong he was. How him being my teacher meant that our relationship was not equal. How a voice in my head said "no" but I ignored it. How, as I turn 30 (he was 32 and I was 16), I definitely do not find 16 yos attractive!!
Can i? Can I message him and tell him? I think i know i shouldn't, but it's my last ditch attempt for closure!
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Relationship with my teacher
HappyPhantom · 10/03/2017 00:05
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