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Nomorenails1 · 07/03/2017 13:50

I love this guy so much been going out a year and a half. we never have sex once a month at a push. it's really causing a strain he claims he to tired due to work but he's off work for a while. it hasn't helped I need to get out before I'm 50 and still in this. I don't want this to happen but I can't see it improving. how do I tell him making him aware I'm serious this time things have to change or I'm out. I'm only 24 things shouldn't be like this there wasn't even a honey moon period. I'm so upset I don't want it to be like this he's so perfect it's just this. I really love him

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TheNaze73 · 07/03/2017 14:14

Ultimatums are a sign of weak people. Whatever you do, don't do that.

You're still young, why did you accept a relationship with no honeymoon period?

You sound very unhappy, just end it now, it'll only get worse. Good luck OP

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Nomorenails1 · 07/03/2017 14:17

There was a honey moon period just not the sexual one he was nervous though so I put it down to that

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xStefx · 07/03/2017 14:24

OP your only 24. If your not suited sexually then perhaps your better off as friends ( you can still love him as a friend)

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Nomorenails1 · 07/03/2017 14:27

I've cried over loosing him I'm so stuck

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