Left exDH over 2 years ago. It has been hard work but I am in quite a good place with regards to work and my emotional health.
So, today started well - managed to get to the gym early but exDH was there and he wanted to talk to me. I resisted at first but when I left he came out and we went somewhere relatively quiet to talk. Except that he wasn't quiet: I am a horrible person, not the person he once knew etc etc. He was almost shouting, but not quite. Certainly speaking loudly enough for several heads to turn. So, to stop him I have agreed to visit him in a couple of days.
And now I feel completely rubbish and annoyed with myself for feeling like this and letting him affect me. I am at work and just want to shut myself away and burst into tears.
I have worked so hard at making myself robust with stuff like yoga and just being kind to myself, but I am letting him get to me so easily. :-(
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still can't handle ex
burninglikefire · 07/03/2017 09:34
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