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viagra secret stash

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user1488308965 Mon 06-Mar-17 19:44:41

Hi I need advice as I'm so upset I can hardly bring myself to write this..

I found Viagra in the car.. next to a child's car seat and I cannot get over the irresponsibility of my husband . As well as being in shock about him using the drug, my child could of taken any of these blue pills .... and I am so upset I cannot trust him anymore.
I do not care if he using these drugs or why he is using these drugs ,however I do care about my child and cannot forgive him for hiding this stash in the car near where my child sits...
Do I have to do a drug raid on my car every time I use it ?
would ANYONE ELSE BE THIS ANGRY OR AM I ABNORMAL ?

hahahaIdontgetit Mon 06-Mar-17 20:37:53

No, totally unforgivable.

DownTownAbbey Mon 06-Mar-17 20:39:58

He's a turd!

iremembericod Mon 06-Mar-17 20:41:01

Why don't you care why he has them??

Wishiwasmoiradingle2017 Mon 06-Mar-17 20:42:58

Does he use them with you?
If he doesn't then you have lots more to worry about.

BonnyScotland Mon 06-Mar-17 20:44:34

Okay..... so I'm going to assume that... by your reaction ... that you know your husband in having sex with other people....

it's the safe storage of Viagra Drug that has pissed you off.... ?

just tell him to stop being so reckless ....

user1488308965 Tue 07-Mar-17 06:13:20

I am angry that our child or another child could of taken these. if I approach the subject it will cause yet another argument. He is never wrong.

sex with other people - really don't care , as long as its not with me. The relationship is dead .trust him no more

I am shocked/ angry/ upset he would put child's life in danger

BonnyScotland Tue 07-Mar-17 14:47:09

the disgust and venom you express for your husband begs the question.... why are you still living with this reckless argumentative man you care nothing for ?

SparklyMagpie Tue 07-Mar-17 16:00:41

I agree. Why are you even with him ?

user1488308965 Tue 07-Mar-17 16:55:32

I am not "with him" I have asked for separation.

Littlefrogletx Tue 07-Mar-17 17:17:40

Leave him then.
Speak to a solicitor get the ball rolling

user1488308965 Tue 07-Mar-17 17:38:15

My DD aged 3 could of taken these ,they were in a clear plastic bag .He's 31 years old and works long hours. I was just looking for support , I was being truthful .I cannot stop him doing what he wants , with whom , I don't think I was venomous, I am very disappointed .

BeerMuggles Tue 07-Mar-17 17:41:23

That is awful. I don't blame you for being angry. Just because he's checked out and you've asked for a separation doesn't mean he can check out of being a sane parent. Once my mum babysat when my eldest was about 8 months old and I found a sleeping pill on the sofa. I never mentioned it but I was really annoyed.

SandyY2K Tue 07-Mar-17 17:48:27

He's a bit young to need viagra...

As you are seperating, can you tell him you found some drugs in the car which could be dangerous to your DD and you've thrown them away.

hellsbellsmelons Tue 07-Mar-17 18:05:44

What are your plans to actually separate?
I agree. He is young for viagra.
Throw them away.
Down the loo.
And then tell him what you've done and if he puts your child's life in danger again you'll report him to SS.

Holly3434 Tue 07-Mar-17 19:31:02

Why is he hiding them if your ok with it?

Chops2016 Tue 07-Mar-17 19:31:10

Not necessarily too young for viagra, I /very/ briefly dated a guy who needed them and was 25.

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