DP and I both married before - me divorced, him widowed. The subject of marriage came up as we are expecting DC (each have 1 DC from first marriages).
He's reluctant to get married as he knows I don't want to take his name (e.g. will be different to my DC but same as his, already had a 'Mrs DP'). I know he is BU but I am really hurt that he doesn't want to marry me as if I don't change my name then 'nothing changes'.
I've countered by saying that if that's the case, why don't I revert to my maiden name and my DC has her dad's name, his DC has his name and then 'our' DC can have my 'new name'.
Can anyone foresee issues I need to address? As much as it would resolve the situation, I don't want to just let our DC have his surname especially as unmarried.
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Name deal breaker?
cuddlesandchips · 06/03/2017 13:23
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