I had a call from my Mum at the weekend. Usual sort of call, I asked her how she was and was told that she was 'worried' about me. I asked why? Because I've 'let myself go'
She doesn't mean that I've let myself go. She means that I've put on weight. And I have, I'm a 14 was a 10.
I'm so bloody hurt. I knew when I saw her last week that she was unhappy with this; she looked me up and down and didn't say a word.
I have a very unhealthy relationship with food. This started when I was very young and has come from DM and DGM. My sister has disordered eating too. I can easily lose weight: I can cut calories to around 700/day. But it's not healthy or sustainable.
When I'm thin, DM will happily offer compliments etc. When I'm bigger, she won't even look at me.
I've not spoken to her since Saturday, even though she's tried to call and has sent messsages telling me she loves me. Clearly though, she only loves me if I'm thin.
I'm 45 ffs.
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CatsGoPurrrr · 06/03/2017 12:20
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