Found out OH had what probably amounts to an EA, with the intent of sex (denied, of course) and intended leaving me, with someone he worked with. Happened 20 years ago, though just found out details. He says it was so long ago, just forget it. I can't, because he has had plenty of other opportunities working away (and a few close female friends from work who made me a bit uncomfortable) though of course no concrete evidence. I wonder what else I haven't found. He must have been treating our relationship with contempt when packing his condoms to work away (fact), so how can I trust he is different even it's a long time ago? Now have kids and a sahm, so it would be easier to just accept, but it still bothers me. What would you think?
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If you found out something after 20 years together would it still upset you?
Jellybellyqueen · 04/03/2017 22:00
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