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DH and sex

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Busybeesmum Fri 03-Mar-17 19:52:33

I'm very lucky. After 4 kids we still have a good sex life. I read a thread on here the other day about a woman who'd been dumped as she wet herself during sex. When DH (tmi) goes hard at it and I've not had a wee before sex I often wet myself. DH finds it a turn on and goes out of his way to get me to wet myself. Is this a common fantasy?

ProseccoBitch Fri 03-Mar-17 19:54:02

I think you should probably post this in the 'sex' section confused

gamerchick Fri 03-Mar-17 19:55:02

not one of mine.

Maybe you should address your pelvic floor though so it doesn't get worse.

pnutter Fri 03-Mar-17 19:58:10

Welcome to mumsnet Melania

Bitofacow Fri 03-Mar-17 19:58:16

Get your post moved to sex and there will be lots of helpful comments about 'squirting' leave the post here and you will feel like an incontinent pervertgrin

SookiesSocks Fri 03-Mar-17 19:58:30

Sex topic is only available after so many (90??) days registration Prosecvo wink

Bitofacow Fri 03-Mar-17 19:58:51

pnuttet lmaogrin

MollyHuaCha Fri 03-Mar-17 19:59:08

Welcome to mumsnet Melania


NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom Fri 03-Mar-17 19:59:10

Not sure about what you describe but some people like to be pissed on, it even has its only quirky name 'watersports'

NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom Fri 03-Mar-17 20:00:08

Own not fucking onlyhmm

fernanie Fri 03-Mar-17 20:00:20

pnutter you made me snort my tea out of my nose! grin
(Nothing helpful to add OP, sorry!)

NewPuppyMum Fri 03-Mar-17 20:00:36

[sick emoticon]

Sparklingbrook Fri 03-Mar-17 20:00:42

GP to get your pelvic floor checked out, and have a wee before sex.

DevelopingDetritus Fri 03-Mar-17 20:04:10

about 'squirting' I don't think that's what squirting is.

Floralnomad Fri 03-Mar-17 20:05:30

Surely that means you just piss through the bed / settee /floor ( wherever your preference is) which sounds hugely inconvenient and unhygienic unless you always have sex in the bathroom .

DevelopingDetritus Fri 03-Mar-17 20:16:56

They might have a water proof mattress protector.

Janet80 Fri 03-Mar-17 20:31:52

Um, does you OH know it's wee or does he think it's squirting or an orgasm? (Though I have heard that squirting is actually urine anyway confused)

troodiedoo Fri 03-Mar-17 20:36:03

It's not uncommon. Probably more about him making you have an uncontrollable reaction to his movements than the actual wetting. Glad you're both enjoying yourselves wink

Bluntness100 Fri 03-Mar-17 20:38:42

Sure, it's really common, men just love incontinent women,


Huskylover1 Fri 03-Mar-17 20:46:21

Why would you have sex when needing a wee, unless you actually want this to happen? Seems like you enjoy it too, by the sounds of it. Would not be for me, I'm afraid. Surely you'd need to strip the bed afterwards.

dangle90 Fri 03-Mar-17 20:47:29

Golden shower anyone confusedgrin

Sparklingbrook Fri 03-Mar-17 20:49:42

Lovely when you stay at other people's houses or a hotel.

AnyFucker Fri 03-Mar-17 20:50:59

It's just a matter of time before you are poleaxed by the UTI from hell

DianaMemorialJam Fri 03-Mar-17 20:51:26

Op if this is for real, you might want to head to the gp.

DevelopingDetritus Fri 03-Mar-17 20:58:43

I found having sex with a full bladder really uncomfortable, plus burning feeling after.

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