I think I'm about to piss my friend off and our friendship is already on rocky ground tbh.
I've applied for and got an interview for a job that she told me not to apply for as she was applying for the a team role and team leader role. There were 6FT posts in different locations (3 of which are in travelling distance of home) and one team leader post.
I hate my job. And I mean HATE it. I did a years post grad study in this area and saw the job I've got now as a stepping stone. It's early starts and badly paid and my manager micro manages things like going to the toilet etc. I have to get my 3dc's up at 6am and to the childminders and I'm a LP so it's hard.
My friend hasn't got experience in the team role (mental health) so I was about why she was going for it anyway. I could probably have gone for the team leader role too but thought that I shouldn't as my friend has got a good chance of getting that.
So I've got an interview for the team role and our old manager has just told me my friend has an interview for the team leader role. I don't know if she's got an interview for the other.
I've sent her a message saying I'm really sorry but I had to apply and she hasn't responded.
Things have been rocky between ya anyway because I did her a massive & frankly pita favour that saved her hundreds of pounds last year and barely got a thank you and she called me miserable a few times when I was trying to work FT and get a 20,000 word dissertation done and couldn't go out or see anyone much.
My friend is a fair bit older than me, grown up DC's and a very settled life so doesn't have the (financial) pressures I do. Was AIBU to go for the same job? I knew about the job because our old manager told me about it and said I should apply.
Was trying not to drip feed! Sorry it's so long!
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Really an AIBU but too fragile for there. Friendship and job opportunity.
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Gertrudeisgerman · 02/03/2017 17:48
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